I have been needing to change my drivers license since I got married. Well it is not fun at all in the gigantic city of Houston. My first attempt was three weeks ago. I went to one location about 10am on a Tuesday, the line was out the door wrapped around the building. Since this was the week I lost my blackberry I was unable to google for another location. Wow how dependent I am on my phone! So I had to drive 20 mins home to google which DMV was a fast one. So I read yelp and found out there is a south location that is super fast. So I thought around 1 o’clock I would get dolled up and run down there. I arrived at this location, not going to lie it was sketchy, well for Houston normal looking. The older I get the more I have an uncomfortable feeling being a woman by myself in what looks to be a “sketchy” area. That day I ended up not getting out of my car because I did not feel safe going in there alone.
WELL TODAY WAS A NEW DAY! I decided why am I so uncomfortable, everyone else has the same reason why they are going into the DMV? So I held my head up and walked in like I owned the joint. I had to or else fear would have got the best of me. When I walked in, the line was super long wrapped around the wall. I am about to be real…Sometimes I despise society, or how I learned about races growing up. I walked in and being a Caucasian I was a minority in this small building being the only Caucasian, which is what made me uncomfortable at first. I wish I didn’t feel this way. It frustrates me why most people feel this way. Why is the world more globalized than ever yet still so segregated. I started to watch everyone in the room and was thinking why is there fear of another human being. Everyone in this room loves, breathes, eats, smiles, laughs, and cry the same way. We all have families! No matter how hard I try to feel like I fit in this little DMV place, I still have this little feeling that I am not the same Human as the woman standing in front of me. Now do I want that feeling? NO. I look around to realize we all have love and pain, we are all so sweetly broken. I am the same as everyone in that room.
Funny stuff, of course I am new to Houston, and I thought that the phrase “homegirl” was not ever used in a regular sentence. Man am I wrong. The woman behind me and the woman in front of me carried on a long conversation which I will share only because it was super interesting. Let’s call woman behind me “behind” and the woman in front of me “front” (I know it’s clever).
Behind: “girl I like your piercing all over your face”
Front: “thanks girl you should see my home girl she has pin point balls all over her face.”
Behind: “no way girl, see I have this one (pointing to her eyebrow piercing), I had a lip ring like yours but it fell out. I sleep crazy (putting her forearm to her face while she rubs her face back and forth as if she is sleeping) see how rough that is its crazy I knocked my lip ring out so now my pillows on the floor cause they’ll knock my (points to her eyebrow ring again).
Front: “ummm hmmm yeah yeah see I don’t sleep on my bed I be sleepin on air mattress cause I don’t rub my face in that. Cause I keep losing all my balls (pointing to her two lip rings) that’s why you got to have extra all over the place cause you lose yours balls all the time, they just come off.”
Behind : girl that’s why you got to go to debo’s to get that stuff done they clean safe and everyone gets them done there, last time cause I know debo he told my 40 for my tattoo on my arm and I said no I am paying 25, see that’s the way you got to run it.
Front: “I heard about that place my homegirl got hers done there but the ball got lost in her lip, she has really big lips though and they had to dig it out.”
Behind proceeds to lift up her shirt and show us all her tattoos she got done and what they mean.
This convo went on quit awhile the whole time I was standing in between them looking back and forth smiling laughing when they did , lol probably look like I was trying so hard to fit in cause secretly I really wanted to lol. In a sense it is so cool how they can just start up a conversation and talk like they have known each other for ever. I have respect for them no matter what the conversation was. It was weird but this conversation these two ladies had made me feel so much more comfortable being in the DMV.
I was there for two hours! Picture turn out good.